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September 27th, 2008

nakiki-TRIVIA

Well, parang na-inspire akong magpost ng Trivia para sa mga friendships..

where did the inspiration came from?

it just popped out of my mind when there's this newbie agent na nalilito ako kung sha ba ay instantly promoted to an SME position

ang agent na ito ay nice nman pero hindi ko tlaga alam angreaction ko sa ginagawa nyang pagikot ikot sa floor. VERY helpful ika nga, punta kay ganitong agent kahit hindi sini-seek ang kanyang help...punta sa ibang vets to ask problems they are experiencing with tools.

ang agent na ito ay MAHILIG magtanong sa vets, pero wag ka, mahilig shang sumagot ng tanong sa kapwa newbie.. while i know ang intentions nya might be good, i dont feel comfortable with this agent..

kapag wala sa floor, di sha namamansin

pero pag nasa floor, pansin na pansin ka nya lalo na kapag may call sha. di ko nman expect na makipagbesobeso sha pero kasi minsang nsa lobby, nag-hi ang lola (what can i do friendly ako?), avah! dineadma akech so parang gusto ko rin shang deadmahin.. panay ang ngiti sa kin kpag may tanong or pag nsa floor.feeling ko kakandidato sha...

hayz, thats all i can say.

Posted by nessieric at 10:11 PM | 4 ang nausog

September 23rd, 2008

I hate myself

I hate musself, hayz nahulog si cyrus, 4 mths old baby ko khapon sa sofa, im abt to change his diapers and in a matter of2-3 secs he is gone, i just found him on the floor. semento yun ha!!!

bad trip tlaga, im so worthless

we are observing him , hindi nman nilagnat, hindi nmana nagsuka or naging iyakin, he is his normal self, takot ako..kaso if i check him up with a doctor, doctor will ask for symptoms and he doesnt have any since he is too young for any tests.

Posted by nessieric at 04:31 AM | 11 ang nausog

Welcome to My Business -ES...

Hi friends

 

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Thanks

Posted by nessieric at 04:28 AM | 1 ang nausog

September 18th, 2008

To my Mortal enemy

Dear Mortal Enemy,

Tama ba sa araw na ito habang ang mundo ko ay magulo, ikaw ay magpapakita sa akin
ang iyong pagkapangit na mukha at madumi mong budhi ang sumalubong sa aking paningin

Tama ba na sa tagal nating di nagkita, ikaw ay darating upang ako ay galitin
Tama ba na sa trabahong ito kung saan ako ay nanahimik malayo sa iyo ikaw ay makikita
upang ako ay bwisitin?

Hiling ko sa bagong bukas ika'y di na makita...kailanman...EVER..Rest in peace BITCH!


Posted by nessieric at 01:29 AM | 8 ang nausog

It doesn't matter who's right and who's wrong

"Few people really know how to listen to another person and feel what they are feeling, without jumping in with their own ideas, opinions or hidden agendas. "

I wish I am one of these few people..I wish He is also one of these people.

I read this somewhere , as to how to Empathize with someone whether a friend, a husband or a parent, lets call him or her "mate":

Here's how it works: Pick a time when you can talk uninterrupted -- a Dialogue can take five minute or an hour, depending on what you need to discuss. The person who has something to talk about begins by expressing his or her thoughts to her partner. The listener then has to mirror word for word what their partner has said. (No paraphrasing; use the exact words.) Then the listener says, 'Did I understand you correctly?' The speaker says, yes, no, or has the chance to add other thoughts. If at any time the conversation becomes heated, they must stop talking for a few minutes and resume when things have calmed down.

"In the second part, the listener must validate -- that is, acknowledge -- their mate's feelings. Instead of saying, 'you're crazy,' or 'that's not the way you should feel,' the listener makes it clear that he or she has heard and followed the speaker's words. This doesn't mean the listener necessarily agrees; in many cases, he or she may wholeheartedly disagree. It simply means that the message has gotten through. The listener could also say, 'I see how you may feel that way.'

"The third and most difficult step is empathy: The listener must imagine the world through the speaker's eyes. For example, if a wife is angry that her husband fails to do something he has promised to do, he can say, 'That makes sense to me. I know that when someone promises to do something, but fails to follow through, I feel hurt, too.' To empathize doesn't mean you have to agree -- the husband may not think he did anything wrong -- but you do have to understand the situation from your partner's point of view.

I am not sure I can make him try this..

Posted by nessieric at 12:00 AM | Ang nag-EOP..

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